I think you're one of the few men I've seen say much about settling at all, even as defensive cover. But, ummm, is there anything wrong with just saying that you're happy being single (as defensive cover?)
Well, maybe he isn't happy being single, but he'd be more miserable settling?
I could say that I have a similar issue, I suppose. Half of me is VERY happy being single, and the other half whines for a partner like you would not believe. Either way, both sides aren't going to be happy, so what do you do?
And as a general rule, people don't believe me when I say I'm happy being single. They are very disturbed at such a concept, actually.
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Date: 2008-03-06 11:04 pm (UTC)Well, maybe he isn't happy being single, but he'd be more miserable settling?
I could say that I have a similar issue, I suppose. Half of me is VERY happy being single, and the other half whines for a partner like you would not believe. Either way, both sides aren't going to be happy, so what do you do?
And as a general rule, people don't believe me when I say I'm happy being single. They are very disturbed at such a concept, actually.