I think a lot of the parents on my flist who are facing health or psych challenges with their children have to ramp up the analysis part of things quite a lot. This reminds me of posts about how, when dealing with traumatized kids, or with adoptees, the parents don't or can't always count on their own family's reflex reactions to be effective.
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Date: 2010-10-14 06:35 am (UTC)