I would rather be asked about my job and what I do for a living than about my bra size, because a specific job says something about me-as-a-person. What I do for a living is an intrinsic part of who I am. My ability to hold a job says something about who I am, as well.
The people in my life I am obligated to financially support & feed & clothe are my children. They come to me helpless at birth. They are my responsibility. But...no one wants to marry a child, unless they view marriage as the gaining of dependents. They want a partner, someone to share the burdens and responsibilities with.
So the questions, to me, would be far better than the sexual come-ons that women usually face. I would absolutely prefer it, because I can see how the answers speak to my existence as an adult person, if that makes sense.
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branchandroot
Re: continued
Date: 2013-03-11 12:52 am (UTC)I would rather be asked about my job and what I do for a living than about my bra size, because a specific job says something about me-as-a-person. What I do for a living is an intrinsic part of who I am. My ability to hold a job says something about who I am, as well.
The people in my life I am obligated to financially support & feed & clothe are my children. They come to me helpless at birth. They are my responsibility. But...no one wants to marry a child, unless they view marriage as the gaining of dependents. They want a partner, someone to share the burdens and responsibilities with.
So the questions, to me, would be far better than the sexual come-ons that women usually face. I would absolutely prefer it, because I can see how the answers speak to my existence as an adult person, if that makes sense.