You are of course correct: people do things for a lot of different reasons. My point was, men who are all "Look at my big house! Look at my expensive suit! Look at my fancy car!" are just as likely doing it to show off for other men, not for women.
Unless, you know, they like the sort of women who are attracted by fancy duds or a car or whatever. Which seems stupid to me, but different people have different goals and needs.
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Re: I think that there are at least three female gazes
Date: 2013-03-11 02:13 am (UTC)Unless, you know, they like the sort of women who are attracted by fancy duds or a car or whatever. Which seems stupid to me, but different people have different goals and needs.