Questions about MySpace and Facebook

[msagara]

I'm not entirely a luddite. But. Well. MySpace and Facebook? They make me feel bemused and almost entirely incompetent. But I know there are a bunch of people in my flist that probably don't feel either of these, and I thought I would, you know, badger you for helpful advice.

1.* How does it work? I recently created a MySpace account and then ... kind of clicked in circles because I couldn't really figure out how to do anything, or in fact even figure out what I was supposed to do. My oldest son and my friends mock me mercilessly in Facebook, and because I love them, I want to avoid having to kill them, so I haven't yet created an account there.

2. Have you found it helpful?

ETA: * as in rudimentary step-by-step instructions as if you were speaking to your 5 year old dog. Because I in theory understand that you are suppose to build a friends-list there, but cannot figure out how to do this.

Comments

[sarbah77.livejournal.com]

I find MySpace useful to keep up with some friends that I see at a concert annually. I find Facebook useful to keep in touch with graduate students (I'm staff and not an advisor; just a person who helps smooth the bumps in academia).

My friends call Facebook "like MySpace, but not as awful" and I agree. There's less visual and aural clutter on the site. Both are good to drop quick notes of the "hi, how are ya?" variety without the formality of email.

I still check LJ significantly more than Facebook and I try to get to MySpace once every other week or so.

[esperalore.livejournal.com]

I'm as mystified as you. I created a facebook account partially because my uncle seems to think its a good thing to do (in terms of networking, I guess keeping in touch with people you've met) and mainly because he posted a video of my grandmother cooking that I wanted to see. But I got bored pretty quickly. I had the same problem; I have no idea what I'm supposed to do on the site.

I'll probably figure them out about the time they're no longer popular, since I seem to be completely hopeless for my generation.

[technomom]

I have accounts in both places, due to some best-forgotten lemming episode. I don't use them, though - I might log in to MySpace once every month or two, IF I get a private message there. I see Facebook a little more often, but it's mainly a nuisance now.

I know that MySpace is de rigeur for musicians, maybe because of that whole "put music in your profile" thing, and I frequently get event notifications from a local musician via Facebook. I don't think either is really that great, but you might find more readers looking for you in those places. Especially the young ones.

I hate hate hate MySpace. It has been the source of malware more than once. So do be careful whenever you visit there!

[kristine-smith.livejournal.com]

I have a My Space page, but as of late I haven't visited much. It's not as interactive as LJ. I know there are discussion groups and blogs and such, but that immediacy of conversation just seems to be lacking.

That being said, I did connect with a couple of readers. I will probably start up a Facebook page as well, just because so many folks are there. They're like big calling cards.

[msss.livejournal.com]

I steer clear of MySpace for a couple of reasons. Firstly, it's known to be vulnerable to malware. Second, I don't like the layout and messiness of the pages.

Facebook is slightly better, although their privacy policies are subject to drastic and invasive changes. It has been useful for finding friends that I'd lost contact with.

[domynoe.livejournal.com]

I find Facebook irritating and MySpace only slightly less so, but I know enough minimal html to manage MySpace semi reasonably. I can see someone who knows nothing being totally lost.

I barely use my MySpace page, I have it purely for author type stuff. I don't actively seek out friends there, or post a lot there, or anything. I generally find it annoying, it's just one of the places to be, supposedly. A few people I don't know--authors, some others--have friended me there, and I post publication announcements. That's about it.

Facebook annoys me even more and I have yet to figure out a use for it.

[canwolfshadow.livejournal.com]

I think myspace is the root of all evil. I have been finding facebook moderately useful for keeping track of friends that I haven't heard from in a while, and sort of one-stop shopping for checking up on people. I'm a slight privacy freak so, I'm careful on what I put on the site. Facebook is useful for that in that you can easily set privacy levels.

I cannot comment on myspace.

Facebook, follow the steps tp set up from their main site, and then send emails to a few key people, that you are on facebook, and your contact info for there... Generally consisting of generally your user name. Also post user name here... I suspect that you would be inundated with friends requests in short order. approve or disapprove at will for a personal page. I have no idea how to create a fan-type page.

[stillnotbored.livejournal.com]

It kind of frightens me that authors feel the need to have a presence on MySpace and Facebook. I feel too old for both of them. They feel designed by and for high school kids.

I plan on ignoring both places for as long as possible. That might turn out to be forever.

[kateelliott.livejournal.com]

I don't have a MySpace page because my kids won't help me set it up because they sneer at MySpace for its clunky ugly interface. I think Jay set up a MySpace page for me, but neither of us can figure out how to get back into it because I lost the password or something.

I have a Facebook page which I rarely get onto but I do have about 50 friends without trying much. Including all three of my children and several nieces and nephews. Of course, they're older than yours. . .also, they mock me to my face.

[starlady38.livejournal.com]

I can understand your worries about friending your family on Facebook, and also them mocking you in public, but if you had a page and if you let that page be viewable to people who were not listed as friends, then I don't think it would necessarily be viewed as a negative by random strangers. Inasmuch as Facebook involves social cachet (because cachet is usually between people who at least have heard of each other in real life, I think), the more wall posts and whatnot you have the better you look. But it's just as easy to set your profile only viewable to friends. One of my other favorite authors, Garth Nix, has a Facebook page that seems decently orderly; I think his profile is public-viewable, but I'm not sure. I friended him as a fan, and wrote on his wall telling him I love his books, and as a fan who doesn't want to be weird I've limited my interactions to that--although his use of the Facebook notes feature serves to keep me up to date on his books with less effort on my part. I would say your LJ does a better job of that in your sphere, though.

Can you tell I'm pushing for Facebook? Seriously, MySpace is full of malware because it's so damn easy to hack people's pages, especially those of relatively famous people. And the interface is awful. For me Facebook isn't about "doing" anything other than keeping in touch with and finding people, and it's a very efficient engine for doing that.

[sdn.livejournal.com]

i have pages on myspace and facebook. myspace is horrible -- it's buggy and it crashes a lot. facebook, i think, is better for your reader base, as its users are older. i think it is a huge timesink, though. a lot of stupid widgets.

[janni.livejournal.com]

The way I started friending people on myspace and facebook was to go onto lj and say "here's where my myspace and facebook are" so that they could find me. :-)

I don't do much on myspace beyond friend people back--I have links there back to my lj, mostly. Facebook is another matter--because on facebook, you can play Scrabble with people. :-)

[april-art.livejournal.com]

Some people find MySpace useful for marketing or publicity or keeping in touch with fans/readers, etc. It basically has a LOT of people on it, mostly in a certain demographic. It probably can't hurt to have a page up (unless you do get some malware, of course). You wouldn't need to active or friend anyone back, probably... mostly you could just post any announcements or whatever in their blog function.

I find the UI very clunky there... I'm not a horrible luddite, but it isn't easy for my old dog brain to figure out, either. I joined up a year or so ago but haven't done much with my account aside from friend a few people. Most found me--one of whom was a cousin of mine. Users just manage to find you out. I certainly am not going looking...

I had a friend who discovered that someone had created a fake MySpace page for her! It was actually quite a nice page and looked totally authentic--with correct information and all. I was actually fooled by it, myself. She got MySpace to take it down. Her market overlaps the MySpace demographic, but she obviously doesn't feel the need to be there.

[fyrna.livejournal.com]

I've never used MySpace, but I have a Facebook account. I don't do much with it, just keep track of (real-life) friends. I filled out my profile, used the search function to look up a bunch of people, added them as friends, and waited for them to confirm me. Other friends (and some cousins) found me, and I confirmed them. Some of these people I haven't seen in many years, and it's cool to see what they're doing now.

I use Facebook mainly to broadcast my current occupation and contact information, to look up my friends' contact information, or to see what my friends are up to these days. Sometimes I update my Status to say what I'm doing, or how I'm feeling, or where I am (I travel a lot). I ignore all the application requests and stuff like that.

If I was a famous author, I'd keep my personal Facebook account for my friends and family--people I want to keep up with personally. And I'd create a Facebook "Page" (http://www.facebook.com/business/?pages) for my fans--for people who want to keep up with me as an author. (Facebook's concept of "friends" is designed to be reciprocal, and they created a "fans" concept and Pages to handle cases where the relationship is asymmetric.)

Hope that helps~ :)

[andpuff.livejournal.com]

I have a myspace page solely so I can get the blog entires of a couple of independent musicians I follow. (the music you can listen to without a page of your own) I have no friends, I have done NOTHING with the space. Partially because I can't figure out what to do or how to do it, partially because I really don't care.

I use LJ for everything.

[momentarygod.livejournal.com]

in general, i think facebook is more useful for maintaining relationships you've already made.

myspace is better for meeting/connecting with people. (although i agree with the above commenters that myspace's evil quotient is much higher -- malware, irritating teenyboppers and middle-aged men posing as irritating teenyboppers...)

technically, facebook will be easier for you to use. (it's more of a fill-in-the-blank editing process).

myspace will require some help probably.

take the mocking as a sign of love. :) my mother is on facebook now, and while my brother and I give her hell, it's just kinda fun that she's putting herself out there...